Warning: Bumpy Roads

Some moments last longer than others. No one said the roads that we travel were going to be smooth and void of potholes and debris. You travel along your journey and you meet someone who lights your fire and puts energy into your heart. What you need to remember is that there may be many out there who can do just that.

You were you before the relationship, and you will be you after the relationship is over. Hopefully you will have the opportunity to experience many different sparks until you discover the one that keeps that flame lit eternally.

What you don’t want to hear after a breakup is the church rhetoric that the minister spits out to folks…thrown at you, especially when you feel like you’re loosing more and more of your strength as days pass. But, no matter how tired the muscles in your arms and legs feel from treading water just to keep your head up– don’t give in to the tide. God will throw you a life preserver. Maybe toss a halo your way. Smile. Life’s challenges make you stronger.